The ability to enjoy much of the Christian Life comes as the result of God showing His children how to hold together in their experience seemingly opposing conditions. For a clear example of this, let's consider joy and sorrow. The Christian Life is neither one of nothing but joy nor untempered sorrow. I Pet. 1:6 & II Cor. 6:10 bring these two Christian Life Realities together into a Christian Life Experience. We are "rejoicing sorrowers" who experience both of these realities, and often simultaneously!
What instruction does the Lord give us to keep us authentically experiencing both at the same time? We find our answer in Ja. 1:2-4! When we find ourselves in the midst of saddening, uncomfortable, painful, constricting, convicting, etc, trials, we are to "count it pure joy" (NIV) by understanding their purpose ("testing of your faith") and end ("that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing").
The "rejoicing sorrowers"-experience presents us with a model that will also apply to the "blessed wretches"-experience. Let's break it down a bit!
The initial task we have to accomplish is to truly lay hold upon each of these two Christian Life Realities - "wretchedness" and "blessedness." One at a time!
First, as believers, the Bible assures us that in Christ we have received "every spiritual blessing" (Eph. 1:3) and have "riches" we may not yet even be aware of (Eph. 1:18). Our saved condition is considered "glorious" (Ps 45:13). We are called "oaks of righteousness" (Is. 61:3), "jewels" (Mal. 3:17), "lights" (Eph. 5:8). And hasn't the blood of Christ "perfected" us (Heb. 10:14) even while we are being "sanctified" (Heb. 10:14)? Our blessed condition certainly gives us permission to experience joy!
Second, before God saved us, the Bible taught us that we were wretches, using words or phrases like "maggot" (Job 25:6), "worm" (Job 25:6), "vile" (job 40:4), "corrupt" (Titus 1:15), "desperately wicked" (Jer. 17:9), like an exposed and untreated body full of "wounds, and bruises, and putrifying sores" (Is. 1:6). The thought of this condition, and the condemnation under which it brought us, drove us to Christ.
Some Christians believe that these descriptions no longer apply to the saints. They think they have been freed them from this pitiable condition. Now, if we saw the saint as being 100% renewed (as will be true in the New Heavens and New Earth), perhaps we could have some sympathy with this thought. But, the truth of the matter is that our regeneration has still left us wretches in our flesh. The penalty, power, and pleasure of sin is gone, but not its presence in us or around us. Rev. 3:17 is written to a church that Christ says He loves and, therefore chastens. At the same time, He tells them that (in some sense) they must see themselves as still "wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked."
How can this be, given the "blessed" description of them that we wrote about earlier? Here's where our model gives us help.
We can "rejoice" in our trials and in our experiences of unworthiness, because:
First, we are to count, reckon, or regard these distressing times as also "blessed." Faith and the Holy Spirit are always helping us to see beyond what comes to our attention through the senses – to see the unseen (Heb. 11:1)!
Second, we are to understand the purpose and end of such distressing times. Their purpose (or intent) is to prove and stretch our faith. Their end is to make us like the Christ who found joy in His humiliation (Heb. 12:2.
Typically, Christians have one of three responses when they are either going through distressing times or feeling the weight of their ongoing depravity and remaining sin: 1) the "triumphalist" response of glossing over or eliminating their negative feelings, as if to have them or speak at all of them is unbelieving and ungodly – a denial of their joy; 2) the "realist" response, which sees authentic Christianity and true humility in putting their pitiable condition or circumstance at the forefront; 3) the "biblical" response which knows something that to hurt is okay, but there's more to consider than just that.
Something is wrong with the first two of these responses. #1 exalts the positive at the expense of the negative. #2 exalts the negative at the expense of the positive. Only #3 is where we should find ourselves! It is here that our faith is to fight for our joy, against the onslaught of our flesh and trials, without denying the felt experience of either!
What should the right response look like? Even if we acknowledge a range of diversity due to personality and maturity differences, is there a "norm" we can strive for? Yes!! Both are to be held onto simultaneously, with our perspective being dominated by our "blessed" condition.
It's like a camera! If the little "r" realities and experiences (temporal realities and experiences) of our wretchedness dominate, it is like the zoom lens. The pictures of our lives taken this way are up too up close and personal, detail accentuated, wanting to dominate our attention. If our big "R" Realities (spiritual blessings) dominate, it is like the wide angle lens. Now those pictures of scenes in our lives give us "true" pictures because they are now inclusive of those (big-R) Realities that form the grand context of any given (little-r)reality. Any given picture now includes the landscape that adds a biblical perspective on what would otherwise look only morose and painful.
With #3, the picture doesn't gloss over or eliminate the negative experiences, as it does with #1. With #3, the personal tragedies, disappointments, failures, etc. aren't given the dominate place as in #2. With #3 there is always hope that the Holy Spirit will help us to join together the joy and the sorrow, but the joys that are attached to our spiritual realities will dominate the horizon!
Moving from analogy to actual experience, Holy Spirit empowered faith doesn't actually make the positive bigger or the negative smaller. It shows us how big our "blessed" condition truly is, giving it the greater personal significance it deserves! It puts our spiritual blessedness and blessings "in our face" where they should be. It allows us to see what is really going on versus what just appears to be happening. We still know we're wretches – just blessed wretches! We still know we're under duress, but gloriously so!
The result of the proper combining of these two elements, "blessedness" and "wretchedness," yields a very interesting by-product – biblical humility. Always remember, if there's a "biblical" humility, there are counterfeits ready to pounce. With #1, the counterfeit is pride disguised as "happy-all-the-time in the Lord." With #2, the counterfeit is pride calling attention to its misery, or calling attention to the self as it puts the self down. #3 embraces the "toughness" of humility, because it requires us to experience blessing in-the-midst of the humiliations of life – fully feeling the eroding effects of flesh and curse, but feeling our spiritual heritage more!
With the faith-way, the more intense the negative, the more pronounced the positive will need to be. Big "R" Reality must increase in our experience as little "r" realities increase in them, but that's what faith does. When our feelings of distress or wretchedness are mixed with faith in the unseen, they give us a joy that is deeper, and a humility that is truer!
At one and the same time, we are "blessed wretches!" We must live with the tension this brings as we seek to hold them together. During the days of our flesh, the one should never be separated from the other! The precious fruit of holding these two together is HUMILITY!! Humility comes when a believer faces ALL of his/her reality, then walks away personally puzzled, yet thankfully stunned to be grace's recipient.
Pastor Bruce Hays